It’s Not Love. It’s Self-Abandonment. You don’t lead. You manage. You don’t love. You perform. You shrink when she’s upset. You bend to avoid conflict. You lose sleep trying to fix her mood. And you call that being a good husband. But let’s be real— That’s not leadership. That’s codependency. You’re not present. You’re walking on eggshells. You’re not strong. You’re holding your breath. You’re not connected. You’re enslaved. And it doesn’t always feel desperate. Sometimes it feels… noble. You te